Speaking Tips

 

Speaking with Emotion

At a recent workshop, a participant was overcome with emotion when speaking about her father and how they started working together. She apologized. Yet the authenticity she displayed made her content come alive and captured the attention of everyone in the room. When we have the...

Out Loud

One of the biggest mistakes of a speaker is rehearsing their presentation in their heads and not out loud. We've had clients say they froze when they delivered their speech, because the sound of their voice was different than when they rehearsed it. You simply can not...

Why not be an Expert?

Too many women avoid public speaking because they tell me they're not an "Expert." The truth is experts tend to be boring to listen to, can drone on too long and fail to engage an audience. They educate rather than persuade. Add to that, we don't do...

Too Much or Too Little

Every time I conduct a training or coach an individual, the issue always comes up about how much detail to include. Whether you're delivering an elevator speech (self introduction), pitching for new business, or speaking on your topic area, you need to decide what is relevant...

Welcome Comerica and CPA Dynamic Women!

Last Friday I spoke on storytelling to women professionals at Comerica in Irvine. Then I traveled to Beverly Hills to address CPAs at the CalCPA Women's Leadership Forum. The theme of this keynote was workplace communication, but I focused specifically on the communication issues that hold women...

Rehearsal techniques

We never advocate people "wing it" when it comes to practicing their presentations. But if you over-rehearse, or always do it the same way, you can sound canned and memorized. Here are some tips. First, devise an outline as opposed to writing out every word. We...

Plagued by Perfection?

Women professionals will sometimes come to me and say "I want to be more polished and perfect when I speak." We need to change that thinking. Audiences don't respond to a polished speaker, because they don't seem genuine or authentic...